I was reading meticulous’s latest post and It just struck me. I have been thinking about a similar situation for the past six months.
When one of my friends got married. She totally forgot about everyone she ever knew before her marriage. It's like, from the day she married the guy, he became everything in her life, and she started a new life. She also had a few arguments with people who used to be close to her, and decided to drift away instead of talking it through.
She sees her mom and siblings every other day, but she hasn't seen the rest of her family or friends in a looong loong time, how sad, right? It almost brought me to tears the other day. Why can’t she have both… a husband that she loves and great friends and family that will have her back whenever she needs it?
I want her to know somehow that I will always be there for her... if someday he’d break her heart (God forbid). I want her to lean on me and never even doubt that I won’t be there for her.
Sad thing is, I’ve been too stubborn to call her. I wanted her to call first ( but I guess that’ll never happen). We haven't talked or seen each other in more than a year. :(
Ever since I moved into my new apartment, I have fallen in love with it. I keep thinking of ways to decorate it (without breaking my bank). I'm getting two walls in my apartment painted next week! I can't wait... I bought the paint already, yesterday. I never knew paint could be so frinkin' confusing! The place I bought the paint is a green store, so that was cool, and the guys there were helpful (once they felt like I was actually going to buy the paint). After I paint one of the walls I'm going to hang three mirror-framed mirrors on it. I'm also going to hang up my new oversized clock, and assemble my bathroom storage unit for the master bathroom (The downside to my apartment is that there is very few storage areas). I need to go to IKEA to buy some shelves too. And there is a big empty corner in my bedroom that I need to fill up. I'm thinking, either a desk and chair, or a comfy armchair. I also need more lighting in my bedroom. I saw an amazing floor lamp online. It's kind of over my budget, but it's an amazing lamp. I’m also thinking of installing blinds to my bedroom, and curtains for the living room. That will have to come later though I don’t think I can afford it this month, lol. Maybe next month...
Anyways… I hope everyone enjoyed Halloween yesterday!
